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On What Italian-Americans Can Teach You About Personal Finance: 10 Tips

(photo: my mother, her sisters, and my grandmother on the family farm just outside of Pellegrina in Calabria <probably some time in the 1960s>)
Festival Of Frugality #221 - Italiano Edition - Top Seven Frugal Tips An Italian Would Love
(photo: Many Italians are frugal, but ask an Italian what he or she loves better, a fig or money and the answer will almost always be the king of fruits, the fig)
If you haven't noticed, Scordo.com has been focusing on living the Italian Way recently. Scordo began as a practical living and personal finance blog, but what I noticed with each post was that my way of living was, ultimately, informed by my Italian heritage. In turn, I thought I would focus on what I know best, namely, how to live the Italian way in terms of food, lifestyle, money, family, home, etc.
2. Organic Eating Daily asks if one can eat organic on a budget and it's an important question as many folks rush to their local Whole Foods and spend a ton on product that may not have any ROI in terms of quality and health.
How to Negotiate With Contractors Before and During a Home Improvement Project: 12 Tips
Like many first generation college grads, I come from a long line of blue collar workers (I don't like this phrase as, in my experience, many old world "blue collar workers" are as capable and technical as the average college grad here in the US). My father was trained as an electrician, but has a skill set ranging from plumbing and carpentry to landscaping and roofing. Both of my father's brothers are also skilled craftsmen and their expertises include metal working/welding and carpentry. If I extend my family connections further, the list grows to include professional landscapers, blacktop and cement experts, general contractors, finish carpenters and framers, masons, commercial and residential plumbers, etc.
I see it all the time, twenty and thirty somethings ingrained with the idea that they deserve what they deem desirable, whether it be a new wardrobe, apartment in a trendy city, new luxury car, a monstrous new kitchen, the latest Smartphone, and/or a 6 bedroom home in a privileged suburb. Let me break the news to you in a subtle fashion: Dear Twenty or Thirty Something, You don't deserve anything! It doesn't matter if you've lived a privileged life in the past or attended the finest universities where high-brow culture and aesthetics are taught alongside neurobiology and philosophy, when it comes to self entitlement you might as well be begging on the street because what you desire isn't always what you should or can get!
Often the young adults will look around and notice peers with $200+ Smartphones like the iPhone, HTC, Droid, etc, and crave not only the hardware but also the data, phone, and text plans. The same adult also needs his or her own DVR (like Tivo or add on from the cable company), unlimited cable stations, Netflix subscription, game console, and an open door policy on iTune purchases.
How to cure the symptoms: Stick with a basic phone with a bare bones monthly plan (and use you work computer and home or office land line for calls). Use your personal workstation for viewing free shows on the web and rent movies for free from your local library. Your local library will also find any new music you may want to listen to, so just pick up the CD from your local library and burn it at home.
How to cure the symptom: The adult has to first get it in his or her mind that it doesn't matter what type of car one drives. Thereafter, the adult should buy a use vehicle with basic safety features and good reliability and low cost of vehicle ownership. There's plenty of time to maybe one day own a nice vehicle (if that sort of thing is important, but folks between the ages of 18-45 should focus on building real wealth and not German nameplates and leather seats).
How to cure the symptoms: As we all now clearly see not everyone can afford a home or, more specifically, an ideal home. If you're 25 or so and suddenly want a 5 bedroom home in a quiet street in the suburbs because you grew up in that sort of environment or because you have that image in your head, that's not good enough. If you want to own your own home, then you'll need, at the least, a 20 percent down payment, ability to spend lots of money and time on home improvement and necessary maintenance, and the ability to build wealth along side paying your mortgage and property taxes (that is to say, if your total housing expenses exceed 20-25 percent of your take home pay, then you are in over your head and aren't doing other things with your money).

(photo: my young uncle washing his hands in an outdoor fountain in Bagnara, Calabra - Village of Pellegrina)
One of the most important life skills you can teach your child is how to save or, more specifically, why it's important to save. My parents would often bring me to the bank as a small child and I observed my mother writing and cashing checks, depositing money, etc. By the time I was 7 or 8 my parents told me about a little blue passbook they had opened for me when I was born. The passbook (or savings account) contained some regular deposits and a healthy amount of money. I had no sense of the value of the account or what the cash really represented, but I do remember my parents telling me:
1. This is where you will (not can) save any money you come across (birthday, holiday, etc.).
2. Once you put money into the little blue book you really do not want to take it out.
3. The bank will give you some money in return for keeping a little blue book full of money.
The lesson above was very simplistic; namely, that saving is good and should be taken seriously. Beyond setting up a savings account for me, my parents also exposed me to their financial goings-on from a very early age (I knew for example how much my father made via his paycheck, what our tenants would pay in rent each month, and how much my dad would collect for small handy-man type projects). My parents hid nothing about our financial life or status, so I was "in the know" from a very early age. Some experts have argued, especially in light of the recent recession, that parents should aim to shelter financial goings on from their kids given stress, anxiety, etc. And while every parents should customize parental advice for his or her child (read: understand what type of child you have and adjust parents style), I believe in empowering children and raising smart, pragmatic, kids who will be ready to face the world!
So, when beginning your child's fiscal eduction you want to make sure you do the following:
1. Set up a savings account and describe what it is meant for and how you make regular deposits.
2. Expose your child to every inch of your family's financial life (in a sense treat the child as an adult and describe how much money the family makes <and the different sources of money>, what the family does with money, and what money can and cannot provide).
Start the personal finance discussion slowly and make it as easy to digest as possible. That is to say, talk about saving money and not interest rates or how money is needed for a home, food, and security and not to buy video games, go out to eat, or impress people.
I know of some families that never discuss money matters and this can be potentially dangerous to a child's personal finance eduction (which isn't taught in schools, unfortunately, and is the responsibility of the parent). Money is not a dirty word nor should parents treat it as formal topic only open to adults. The sooner a child feels comfortable dealing with money the quicker he/she can begin to see the value of money what it can and cannot provide an individual (security versus happiness, for example).
Black Friday Holiday Shopping: Just Say No to Coupons, Free Shipping, and Deals
With the notorious holiday shopping season fast approaching I'm having nauseous visions of deals, coupons, free mass produced turkeys and hams, free shipping, wal-mart, and 40 percent off blow out sales. The visions are not only vivid and haunting they are actually true!
3. Coupons. The number of coupons sites on the web must double each and every day (I haven't validated this, but it's just a hunch). These days you can save twenty five cents on yogurt at ShopRite, get two large pizzas at Domino's for $5.99, and find an oil change joint that will replace your engine oil and filter for $15. I have to admit that coupons don't excite me, rather what excites me is value. For example, if I see generic yogurt on sale that contains tons of sugar and limited real fruit/flavor I'll often pass on the sale item and spend an extra couple of cents per container because I'd rather purchase the brand that uses real sugar, organic milk, and fresh, real, fruit. With food specifically, I don't want my choices of what I prepare for my family and myself to be influenced by a circular in the paper or a mass email campaign from Stop & Shop. The bottom line is that the choice in the food that I consume is something I value highly and don't want influenced by saving, for example, five dollars at check out at my local market (this shouldn't be interpreted as some sort of elitist, East Coast, view, but rather a viewpoint that is centered on quality of life and the best choice).
Overall, when it comes to shopping and buying stuff (including clothes, food, shoes, consumer electronics, auto renewing services and subscriptions, etc.) I'm a big believer in putting 1. real need and 2. value ahead of spontaneous and pure "saving" shopping behavior. What I'm driving at is that you shouldn't buy what you don't need regardless of a blockbuster deal or free shipping and you shouldn't let important consumer decisions, like food choice, be driven by coupons; instead, look for value when shopping (which I define as the best product for the best price).
(The following is a guest post from Adrienne Carlson; who regularly writes on the topic of criminal justice. See Adrienne's related article on DIY ways to protect your home.)
Remove clutter: A place for everything and everything in its place is a wonderful and easy way to keep your home clean. If you avoid throwing things around the house, you don't have to spend time picking them up later.
Rope the entire family in: If you make cleaning a family affair, it's easier on all of you. It's not an easy job to keep cleaning up after messy children and spouses, so enforce cleanliness as a rule in your family from the time your kids are very young. Hold them responsible for keeping their rooms clean and reward them for neat and tidy rooms.
Quick Tips:
- Use newspaper when cleaning mirrors, windows and other glass surfaces. It does not leave behind ugly streaks like cloth does.

3. S/he is convinced the advertising she just watched, read, listened to, etc. is the truth.
4. S/he lacks fulfillment from non-material things in her life.
5. S/he is bored, lonely, confused, depressed.
6. S/he has the wrong friends.
7. S/he lacks focus.
8. S/he cares too much about personal appearance.
9. S/he is brand loyal.
10. S/he equates success with possessions.
11. S/he is addicted.
12. S/he lacks true friendships and family connections.
13. S/he learned the behavior from mom and dad.
14. S/he is conditioned and has not spent any considerable amount of time outside of the US.
15. S/he does not appreciate nature, reading, and peaceful states (read: she cannot be alone).
16. S/he does not know how to have a good time (without spending money).
17. S/he is credit card dependent.
18. S/he believes she will never improve her financial situation.
19. S/he is not crafty.
20. S/he has never felt what it's like NOT to have money or the ability to spend it.
Movie Night At Home: Movie Recommendations, Dip Recipes, and Top Chips
Mix in fresh lime juice and cilantro and mashed avocado becomes an exquisite tortilla chip accompaniment; here's my recipe:
10. Understand and master what truly fulfils you (it's almost never material goods).
11. Exercise (if you feel good, then you're less likely to spend).
12. Splurge on small treats on a consistent basis (yes, if you know that you're going to treat yourself to dinner out once a month, then you know you can't go out every week, for example).
13. Don't live in a large city (things are more expensive and your lifestyle will be more extreme).
14. Get rid of debt fast (if you don't do it immediately after you finish your degree, for examples, debt may stay with you for life)
15. Streamline - figure out what you need versus what you'd like to have.
16. Make your own coffee, breakfast, lunch, and dinner (in general do-it-yourself as much as possible, including home renovation).
17. Love your local library.
18. Don't emulate people, be yourself.
19. Live below your means, in general.
20. Never, ever, let your mortgage and tax payment exceed 20% of your take home pay.
21. Watch your auto renewing services and plans (like cell phone, data plan, Netflix service, cable, magazine subscriptions, etc.)
This entry will, hopefully, be the first in a series entitled, "Against the Mainstream." The series will aim to dispel popular, or mass media, themes, trends, recommendation, tips, or programs.
Too many people choose plants by their looks, and try to force it to work in their climate. It ends up wasting time, energy, and water.
Want some easy tips on how to get started? Let's go...
1. Switch to CFL Bulbs
3. Figure Out Your Carbon Footprint
Learning how much Co2 your family puts out can be an eye-opening experience. And as the old business adage goes, "What gets measured, gets managed".
4. Invest In A Push Mower
5. Start Using Reusable Shopping Bags
3. Mention to the seller that you have many friends and relatives who are interested in buying from him and that you will promote his product or services to them (most small businesses rely on word of mouth marketing). Also, Ask the seller for business cards so you can pass them out to friends and family
5. Before you plan on making a purchase do your research and a get a sense for the quality of the product and what other folks are selling the item for (many shops <online included> price match).
6. Mention, or better yet, suggest to the seller that you don't need the product he is selling and are willing to wait for the right price.
7. Mention to the seller you will pay in cash (the credit card has killed the art of haggling).
8. Smile and use your charm, but stay composed and cool (sellers will pick up on your intentions if you seem nervous and really want the product).
9. Don't be ashamed or too proud.
11. You can haggle on most products and services (including large ticket items such as appliances, cars, electronics, house, and small items such as clothing, shoes, etc.). Everything is negotiable.
Scordo's Link Round Up: Find Coins at Home, Cabin Fever, & Cheap Dates
Excerpt: **This is a guest post by Jeff Rose. In my hometown, one of the things that my wife and I enjoy doing is going to see our former alma mater battling it out on the basketball court. I'm sure most can relate to attending a similar event, whether it be your former university... via Frugaldad.com
Make Coffee and Breakfast at Home - Starbucks Launches New Discount Breakfast
Don't Be A Sucker: Does A Home Equity Line of Credit Ever Make Sense?
3. Whether you use your credit or not you have the option to tap available funds.
The dangerous thing about Bill Creep, as Blumenthal argues, is that it happens over time yet delivers a financial hit every month due to the use of a credit card. How do you keep Bill Creep under control? Try the following three bits of advice:
1. Evaluate whether you truly need the service or product and side with simplicity when it comes to the latest gadgets and services.
2. Just get the basics. Do you really need a Smartphone, Netflix subscription, and a gym membership? Pick a few basics and stick with them.
3. Say no to pressure from the service provider to upgrade.
The Myth of the One-Family Home: Income and Security For Young Familes and Retirees
Here are 4 ingredients that can help you eat cheap and well for as long as our recession lasts:

